Games People Play


We believe in Grown Azz Kids that life is a production definitely needs a group corporation, to make such action possible we need to know how to relate and communicate properly which each other. A Better understanding of Human psychology and social interactions naturally helps create good working environment and allows artistic flow to flourish. One of our universal problems that plague the modern entertainment world.

Knowing the importance of social interactions and Human psychology prompt Dwight Bonair began to study the science. Being a producer and writer knowing such study will strengthen his writing, he stumbled on Eric Berne’s Games People Play. The work was so prolific and blend with the ideology of Grown Azz Kids ( incidentally Grown Azz Kids can also be seen as representation of the three ego states Adult, Parent, Child) understanding and seeing the value of getting this knowledge to the people. Dwight started to incorporate Eric Berne’s science into grown azz kids seeing the successful result from his own personal problems. Also knowing this science could help us deal and understand many of our on social issues.

Eric Berne’s theoretical explanation of what happens in normal social interaction and fundamental breakdown through the TA ideology. Is a producer and writer’s wonderland of understanding the human nature and society also is amazing for character building. Structures like ego states, Scripts, games and payoff’s creates an indebt understanding of psychology that is very clear, entertaining and attractive to the layman culture that are unfamiliar with indebt psychology.


It allows people to be their own producer and develop a script/dream that is suitable and success in their daily life. This is the goal of grown azz kids and the premise of creating it as a production community. It allows people producers of their our own script/dream and through good cooperation we can help build each other’s script/dream.

The structure allows the interaction of psychology that is appealing to the current masses as everyone wishes to be the star of their own script.


Understanding the basis of games and the fundamental units of TA will give society a necessary advantage needed to create healthy social interactions. As written in the about transactions defined “without such fundamental there can be no real progress.”


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under transactions defined

For example, the study of chemistry was revolutionized with the atomic theory of John Dalton; without the atom as a fundamental unit, the advancement of chemistry as a science would have proceeded slowly or not at all. By identifying and defining a transaction, Berne provided to the psychotherapeutic sciences the “atom” that was needed to allow for rigorous analysis.”

What is great about Transactional analysis is that it embraces a positive view of human nature, Grown Azz kids base our philosophy on it’s principals such as:

  • All people are important and their concerns are valid.
  • All people should be treated as equals and with respect.
  • With a few exceptions, all people have the ability to think as adults.
  • All people decide their own destiny and can make changes to it.

Which these fundamental principals we can come together and build our dreams effortlessly.

It allows us to free ourselves from maladaptive patterns of behavior based on past thinking which hindered productive growth and allows us to choose a new direction in life. By creating new decisions about our current behavior and changing the direction those behavior are taking our lives. This teaches us how to write own life story/script instead of following the one written for us, by help gaining both cognitive and emotional insight into any situation that lies before us.

The process of working together to establish a specific goal to treat or solve an issue using TA techniques then just expression that there is a problem and approaching it with a generic solution. Allow individuals the ability create a solution catered to them.


To Learn More here are some Great Books on the Subject:


games book       What Do You Say After You Say Hello         Laymans_Guide_Psychiatry_Psychoanalysis         beyond games


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